Hey guys

Just thought I'd share some tip on texting after you get a number which has worked for me. Now the age old rule is calling or texting a number after 2 days so you don't seem desperare or needy but this is total bullshit.

Let me tell you why it is more effective to text a couple of hours or more after meeting.

1. A hot girl will be approached a lot and the emotions she felt with you will fade unless you made a strong connection

2. If you met her in a club or bar she may not remember you 2 days after and may not reply

By texting within the same day/night you keep up the momentum of your first initial encounter and she will soon be reminded of the positive emotions associated with meeting you. Its not needy depending on the content.


1 send a witty message, leaving small clues associated with your meeting.

I.e "hey young lady, do you always charm handsome strangers in bookshops? So did you buy a book or do I have to report you to the store detective?" lol

Make sure if you are implying humour you use 'LOL' or a smiley face!

2 Try not to leave one word replies in texts. It shows more depth to your character if you can express yourself in words.

Her: "So did you find your book?"
Some Random guy: "yeah"

Me: "No i did not and its all your fault, you'll have to make it up to me" lol
Her: "oh really and how is that?"

3. Don;t wait too long to text her, do it atleast 2 or more hours after meeting. This works well in daygame as you will still be fresh in her mind.

4 If she sends one text, you send one text! Don;t send 2 or 3 texts to her one just because she hasn;t sent you one for ages, be patient you can always approach more women.

5 Don't wait too long to arrange a date


Hope this helps

Jaz tends to write the best text about texts.
... and a little smattering of novaism, just for good measure:

Peace,

kowalski

if anything, perhaps texting should be treated as a chore that you're giving her the privilege of briefly giving your time, before cutting the bullshit and making it clear what your intentions are, perhaps through witty euphemism...

I cannot stand the use of 'lol' in texts. Especially if it is used again and again. It's almost like a nervous laugh. If you really feel you do have to text, how about conveying a bit of mystery too? Let her wonder if you are joking or not.

The problem is by text or instant chat the other person cannot see your facial expressions. For example if i wrote "i'm going to kill you" without a smiley or LOL unless the other person knows something of your personality they may actually think you're being serious. A lot of misunderstandings occur in texts and if you're not careful can offend.

Its bit like a sitcom, you tend to laugh more when you actually hear the laughter and also in horror films the scary music comes on so you know certain scenes are scary.
The LOLs and smileys help especially if the other person has no sense of humour lol ;-)

Smilies and lol is for pussies.

This was established already in another thread.


Peace,

kowalski

i advocate texts...

for instance, a one line or word that reminds them of a funny convo.

if u send a text that makes a girl smile. ur onto a winner

regardless of wtf jaz says

once I get the texting in full swing I know I'm gonna bang her

I only text her if she texts me first...Only polite. Or if I want to meet her...I wont just say "Yo, lets get our meet oooooooooon". I'll be like "Damn, i just saw your double I swear...Only difference is she was a midget and you have bigger boobs, but the rest...could pass as a twin. Anywhoo, I need a refresher of these boobs, hows Wednesday"...If she replies, Imma get my willy wet fo sho'