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08-09-2011, 08:15 PM
A lot of this will be known to you from various sources and maybe some of it isn’t, but these were some of my favourites from the thousands of methods out there. None of this is meant to be mean, there is a fun spirit to everything below.
Make yourself a challenge from the very beginning.
The most obvious is having a girlfriend naturally makes you hard to get, hang about with other women either friends or wings.
Don’t introduce yourself, wait for her to ask.
Don’t ask the usual chump questions ‘What do you do’, ‘Where do you come from’.
Avoid excessive compliments
Avoid excessive interviews
Don’t follow her around the club, nothing says I’m sad more than this, we’ve all done it.
Don’t give her your full attention, talk to the whole group, create a ‘Why isn’t he talking to me situation’
If she touches you tell her to stop it, something like ‘I just washed this shirt’.
As soon as she knows you are interested the power is in her hands. What does she have to do? Nothing. Make her work, keep that at the back of your mind.
Ignoring and declining her first invitation.
Give her tests, either fun or serious.
Make her qualifier herself to you, get her to express qualities that make her different from other girls.
Chumps don’t leave girls, they stay ALL NIGHT, one of the best things you can do is walk away. I’d make her laugh then tell her I’m off or start talking to her friend.
If she does it to you, like talking to her friend or answers the phone, walk away, chumps stand there waiting like knobs, ‘is it my turn yet’.
Use the power of ‘Maybe’...maybe is such a powerful word, ‘Maybe I’ll see you later’, Maybe I’ll call you.
Use body language, things like leaning back.
Make her close the distance.
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09-09-2011, 12:02 AM
MY VIEWS
Make yourself a challenge from the very beginning.
AGREE
The most obvious is having a girlfriend naturally makes you hard to get, hang about with other women either friends or wings.
DONT DISAGREE
Don’t introduce yourself, wait for her to ask.
DUNNO ABOUT THIS, DOESNT ASS ME!
Don’t ask the usual chump questions ‘What do you do’, ‘Where do you come from’.
AGREE
Avoid excessive compliments
AGREE
Avoid excessive interviews
AGREE
Don’t follow her around the club, nothing says I’m sad more than this, we’ve all done it.
AGREE
Don’t give her your full attention, talk to the whole group, create a ‘Why isn’t he talking to me situation’
AGREE
If she touches you tell her to stop it, something like ‘I just washed this shirt’.
AGREE .. but its gotta be with a big smile like ur joking...
As soon as she knows you are interested the power is in her hands. What does she have to do? Nothing. Make her work, keep that at the back of your mind.
SORT OF AGREE sort of right but i think ur viewing this how i used to ... its not when the power is in her hands, its when she thinks you will continue the flow even if she doesnt..
so u can let her know u like u, ust not enuf to be chasing too hard
Ignoring and declining her first invitation.
THIS CAN PUT A GIRL OFF!! they have feelings too ya know, especially if they stubborn.... ur best bet is smile and say... that would be cool, just dont set a date untill another day
Give her tests, either fun or serious.
TESTS ARE STUPID, just have fun with her <end>
Make her qualifier herself to you, get her to express qualities that make her different from other girls.
DONT AGREE... just have fun, thats all... dont even talk about qualities, or all that, just have fun
Chumps don’t leave girls, they stay ALL NIGHT, one of the best things you can do is walk away. I’d make her laugh then tell her I’m off or start talking to her friend.
GIRLS I KNOW & FUCK WOULD DROP U IN A HEARTBEAT FOR SAYIN THAT: if you value urself, you would end this interaction in a heartbeat if a girl said it.... so a high value girl (like who i like) wont take shit like tha... who exactly r u like??
If she does it to you, like talking to her friend or answers the phone, walk away, chumps stand there waiting like knobs, ‘is it my turn yet’.
If your havin fun she wont be, but u are right!!
Use the power of ‘Maybe’...maybe is such a powerful word, ‘Maybe I’ll see you later’, Maybe I’ll call you.
Maybe is VERY POWERFULL! but u gotta say it like ur actually busy, not just doin it for power...
coz then she will make it a game.
Use body language, things like leaning back.
BODY LANGUAGE YES.... Limbo Dancin lessons NO
Make her close the distance.
I pull them toward me and close the distance myself... then laff and push them away.... then pull again... im a man, i take control of the distance
thats my views on tha
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09-09-2011, 12:04 AM
if anyone wants to clean that post up ur welcome to
i cant be asssed
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09-09-2011, 03:21 AM
I'll do that for them Phil.
Ignore all that bullshit.
Know yourself.
Own yourself.
Live.
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09-09-2011, 06:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Phil
Chumps don’t leave girls, they stay ALL NIGHT, one of the best things you can do is walk away. I’d make her laugh then tell her I’m off or start talking to her friend.
GIRLS I KNOW & FUCK WOULD DROP U IN A HEARTBEAT FOR SAYIN THAT: if you value urself, you would end this interaction in a heartbeat if a girl said it.... so a high value girl (like who i like) wont take shit like tha... who exactly r u like??
This bit confused me.. I duno what point Knave and Phil are making on this one.. but I do think that, when in a club with uber hot girl, don't just be her poodle all night.. feel free to leave and socialize with others, including her mates
Use the power of ‘Maybe’...maybe is such a powerful word, ‘Maybe I’ll see you later’, Maybe I’ll call you.
Maybe is VERY POWERFULL! but u gotta say it like ur actually busy, not just doin it for power...
coz then she will make it a game.
I knew about the word "maybe" being powerful, but I never thought about how I say it. And I can see now that girls DO make it a game (and it annoys the shit out of me - I can't be assed with mind headfucking games
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Overall some interesting points from Knave and Phil and K
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09-09-2011, 06:39 PM
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Overall some interesting points from Knave and Phil and K
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I wasn't aware phil made any points apart from agreeing with 75% of my post then claiming it needs effort tidying up after meticulously commenting on the unagreeable 25% himself and as for K what the fuck does this mean???
Ignore all that bullshit.
Know yourself.
Own yourself.
Live.
Seriously mate sounds like some profound bullshit or maybe it was dreamt up after several joints?
Let me get this right, chump makes the effort to sign up to this forum seeking guidance for getting women, reads your post suddenly has that 'aha' moment and has success with women instantly.
My advice is something that can be used tonight and a little more practical.
Sure its not going to fix the innner shit but at least he might get a feel for pussy before he starts down the long road of self development.
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09-09-2011, 07:30 PM
You are a spaz.
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09-09-2011, 08:42 PM
k just got served.
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10-09-2011, 12:11 AM
Chops and Lovefish are spazmonic.
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10-09-2011, 10:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Knave
My advice is something that can be used tonight and a little more practical.
Sure its not going to fix the innner shit but at least he might get a feel for pussy before he starts down the long road of self development.
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happens ALOT on this forum.
i dont think u get a fair council however from k... as he clearly isnt fond of u
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